tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8646030733795701511.post2913374366394927226..comments2023-12-29T14:35:26.105+05:30Comments on Himalayan Adventurer: HARISH, THE FRUITWALLAHSudhir Khandelwalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03305756205792734369noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8646030733795701511.post-48101382545769720052008-09-26T01:47:00.000+05:302008-09-26T01:47:00.000+05:30Waiting for a trip report from your recent sojourn...Waiting for a trip report from your recent sojourn to Dharan (Nepal).<BR/><BR/>KushagraKush Khandelwalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12721640624400155364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8646030733795701511.post-71999300102081226702008-09-07T21:34:00.000+05:302008-09-07T21:34:00.000+05:30Hats off to Harish for rasing his children so well...Hats off to Harish for rasing his children so well! We should also give credit to the mother, who must have been equally supportive and balanced the family budget. I hope these children realise the efforts of their parents and give them due respect!psychbloggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10089801153019015116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8646030733795701511.post-4333902506842480312008-09-07T19:03:00.000+05:302008-09-07T19:03:00.000+05:30Just before putting this story on the blog, I had ...Just before putting this story on the blog, I had shared it with some of my friends. I am putting their comments:<BR/><BR/>Tantrikclimber said: Incredible!! What an amazing story. Your association with the Kotla market is long indeed. I’m just relieved that we (Vasu and I) never had that kind of pressure to succeed / deliver in our studies I can’t begin to imagine the sacrifices the family must have made. Also, goes on to say that fruit/veggie sellers are better off than one might think. This story belongs in your blog as well, along with Harish and a photo of his cart!<BR/>CA said: Do you think that the sons will support their parents in their old age?<BR/>I have seen examples of parents struggling so their children<BR/>succeed, only to see the successful children later abandoning their<BR/>parents.<BR/>Curiously, I recall having to study a story along these lines during<BR/>my schooldays. Was it a story by Tagore?<BR/><BR/>SCM said: where can i meet him? whereabouts pl.<BR/><BR/>Vasuman said: great story. To think of it, some difference has been made in India’s economic conditions, with under privileged getting fruits of success in terms of material wealth.<BR/><BR/>SB said: Of course, the sons are less likely to support their parents because they have not witnessed such caring as they grew up. Many of us, of older generation are not doing it. Perhaps the sense of responsibility of caring for and sharing with others is in general is rare to find today. But consider the following three scenes which I saw in the supposedly uncivilized Bihar-<BR/>Scene 1- It was in a pilgrimage site but I do not remember where exactly it was- a frail and old mother being carried piggy back by her son <BR/>Scene 2- A panda from Baijdham (a famous pilgrimage site in Bihar) obviously poor, who had come to visit his younger brother whom he had admitted in the mental hospital. As he was leaving, the patient complained of lack of adequate clothes for him in the hospital and the brother took of his own dirty shirt, gave it to him and proceeded for the journey back home in cold winter evening in a tattered banian.<BR/>Scene 3- An illiterate Bihari old man, who came to admit a young boy in the hospital, wanted to see inside the hospital before deciding on admission. He later explained that the young boy was his nephew (brother's son) and his brother was not alive. The man wanted to make sure that the hospital where he was admitting the boy was not some place he would be beaten up or ill treated.<BR/> All these are instances of deep sense of responsibility for others in the family and I feel originated from a sense of inner directedness. We are less and less likely to witness these scenes in future. While early individuation and separation from the family is also apparently a feature in western- particularly American society, it is accompanied with a strong sense of responsibility for the whole community. Unfortunately, in India the old family values are being erased without substitution with anything of value- except perhaps empty ritualistic religion, without any spirituality.<BR/><BR/>AD said: I gave up my permanent job overseas since my mother couldn’t tolerate the weather there.<BR/>But I know children do abandon their parents .They are taught since childhood to go to US and that’s where they go. It is the parents fault to a great extent.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8646030733795701511.post-15503426371746897022008-09-07T12:01:00.000+05:302008-09-07T12:01:00.000+05:30Thanks so much for sharing Sudhir.He has led a bra...Thanks so much for sharing Sudhir.<BR/>He has led a brave life.<BR/>Please convey my best wishes to him. And do tell him that there are people who rate him at 10/10 in his life struggle.Mampihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02151567171626446275noreply@blogger.com